#1684 - 04/02/08 01:05 AM
Scared-4-my-life-Terrorized by ex-hsbns girlfriend
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sosad74
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I'm a 33 year old victim of stalking and I really don't know where to turn anymore.As of today, I think my and my husband's life is going to take a horrible turn for the worse. I'm scared. We just had my ex-husband's girlfriend served with a lawsuit for malicious slander and vicious intent to harm.Our worlds are just going to be a nightmare now (not that it already hasn't been for the last year). It started about a year ago when my two sons (13 and 15 now)told me their dad had a new girlfriend who was older than him (she turned 40).We weren't surprised, nor did we care. She moved in with him immediately with her 13-year-old son(we found out he met her online). I was surprised one morning at work when I opened my personal company e-mail account, which is used for in-house purposes. It was an e-mail from a name I did not know. She said that she was receiving prank phone calls from my workplace where the caller would hang up and that if it was me to please stop because she knew my ex and I didn't get along (I was going to court over him not paying child support). I contacted my IT person and HR person and found out that she had already contacted the company and singled me out. They told me that they had found nothing (because there WAS nothing). She then tried acting like it was no big deal and tried keeping the line of communication open. I was really nice to her and told her I wished her and my ex the best of luck together and that I was happy he found someone. I was being played. I was being set up from the very start. Things got weirder and weirder from that point on and she started sending me e-mails with pictures of her with my ex and my children (calling them her boys) and pictures of herself in a bikini. I never gave her any of my e-mail addresses, though I was in her address book. She made it look like she sent the letter to me on accident. I think the other addresses were probably one's she made up. Whenever I responded to an e-mail from my ex on visitation- she replied, and in a scolding manner. Then she'd write me again, acting nice. It got so bad-I told her to leave me alone.That's when she made threats.She has since, registered all my e-mails online, given my cel phone number out, used my children during their father's summer visitation to terrorize me (police, CPS, judge wouldn't help me), had an officer sent to my work to serve me with a restraining order, and repeatedly contacted my company until they told her to stop. She screams in front of the children and says I'm a jealous whore. She says tells everyone I'm in love with my ex and want him back (even though I fled with my children to escape his abuse).
She just recently hunted down my husband's ex (through MySpace) who gave up her children for drinking and partying and we've been raising his son.His ex doesn't know she's being duped and is happy she has a new friend to join forces with to "take me down" (doesn't like that her son loves me).My husband's ex is now trying to tell him that I have some hidden things he doesn't know about and that they all (my ex, his girlfriend and her) have nothing against him but he doesn't know me. My husband knows everything about me.They are using my sweet little stepson as a tool.My husband was never married to his ex and she has sole custody. She gave her babies up.Now his ex is secretly plotting to take him away and send him to his aunt in Nevada. It's all a ploy set up by my ex's girlfriend. We've tried ignoring her. We've TRIED! She prays on ANY reason to make contact. She's obsessed! When I tried to get an order of protection cause she threw a phone at my son, and was harassing me at work, she got up in front of the judge and said I told her my husband left me because I had an affair with a co-worker and named a man at my company (earlier that day,I was informed by HR that she had been trying to get a company employee list from our receptionist. She contacted my children's therapist and "reminded" him that she worked with his wife, RIGHT before I opened the door to his office.My children watched her beat the snot out of my ex and NOTHING stops her. Then they said he tackled her to the ground to restrain her and she screamed he was being abusive. (He IS, by the way).He's met his evil equal. I'm scared. I feel hopless, have ulcers, horrible panic attacks...I live in fear, and am paranoid anymore that she might mess with my car, or run me over in a parking lot when I leave my second job late at night. Don't know if I will ever be able to have a life (and I'm a very boring person!). My love for my family is so strong...but I can't even enjoy my beautiful children growing up. I'm afraid she'll kill me or have someone kill me. I told my mom, my husband, my friends, "if something happens to me- you know". Her son told my children she had her husband put in prison for physical abuse.I wonder.I wonder if she set him up.She worked as a parallegal and did investigative work she said. She's done this all before. She knows exactly what she's doing. Like she said to the judge, "I did lots of investigative work, and I was GOOD at it".
God, father in heaven, help me.I'm not a fanatic but what else do I have.No one can help me.
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#1685 - 04/02/08 09:45 AM
Re: Scared-4-my-life-Terrorized by ex-hsbns girlfriend
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ttruscott
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I'm sorry - I can't read this. Since you can edit, how about going thru it and making some paragraphs so it is readable.
Only two or three sentences per paragraph is the norm.
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#1686 - 04/02/08 10:26 AM
Re: Scared-4-my-life-Terrorized by ex-hsbns girlfriend
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As of today, I think my and my husband's life is going to take a horrible turn for the worse. I'm scared. We just had my ex-husband's girlfriend served with a lawsuit for malicious slander and vicious intent to harm.Our worlds are just going to be a nightmare now (not that it already hasn't been for the last year). It started about a year ago when my two sons (13 and 15 now)told me their dad had a new girlfriend who was older than him (she turned 40).We weren't surprised, nor did we care. She moved in with him immediately with her 13-year-old son(we found out he met her online). I was surprised one morning at work when I opened my personal company e-mail account, which is used for in-house purposes. It was an e-mail from a name I did not know. She said that she was receiving prank phone calls from my workplace where the caller would hang up and that if it was me to please stop because she knew my ex and I didn't get along (I was going to court over him not paying child support). I contacted my IT person and HR person and found out that she had already contacted the company and singled me out. They told me that they had found nothing (because there WAS nothing). She then tried acting like it was no big deal and tried keeping the line of communication open. I was really nice to her and told her I wished her and my ex the best of luck together and that I was happy he found someone. I was being played. I was being set up from the very start. Things got weirder and weirder from that point on and she started sending me e-mails with pictures of her with my ex and my children (calling them her boys) and pictures of herself in a bikini. I never gave her any of my e-mail addresses, though I was in her address book. She made it look like she sent the letter to me on accident. I think the other addresses were probably one's she made up. Whenever I responded to an e-mail from my ex on visitation- she replied, and in a scolding manner. Then she'd write me again, acting nice. It got so bad-I told her to leave me alone.That's when she made threats.She has since, registered all my e-mails online, given my cel phone number out, used my children during their father's summer visitation to terrorize me (police, CPS, judge wouldn't help me), had an officer sent to my work to serve me with a restraining order, and repeatedly contacted my company until they told her to stop. She screams in front of the children and says I'm a jealous whore. She says tells everyone I'm in love with my ex and want him back (even though I fled with my children to escape his abuse).
She just recently hunted down my husband's ex (through MySpace) who gave up her children for drinking and partying and we've been raising his son.His ex doesn't know she's being duped and is happy she has a new friend to join forces with to "take me down" (doesn't like that her son loves me).My husband's ex is now trying to tell him that I have some hidden things he doesn't know about and that they all (my ex, his girlfriend and her) have nothing against him but he doesn't know me. My husband knows everything about me.They are using my sweet little stepson as a tool.My husband was never married to his ex and she has sole custody. She gave her babies up.Now his ex is secretly plotting to take him away and send him to his aunt in Nevada. It's all a ploy set up by my ex's girlfriend. We've tried ignoring her. We've TRIED! She prays on ANY reason to make contact. She's obsessed! When I tried to get an order of protection cause she threw a phone at my son, and was harassing me at work, she got up in front of the judge and said I told her my husband left me because I had an affair with a co-worker and named a man at my company (earlier that day,I was informed by HR that she had been trying to get a company employee list from our receptionist. She contacted my children's therapist and "reminded" him that she worked with his wife, RIGHT before I opened the door to his office.My children watched her beat the snot out of my ex and NOTHING stops her. Then they said he tackled her to the ground to restrain her and she screamed he was being abusive. (He IS, by the way).He's met his evil equal. I'm scared. I feel hopless, have ulcers, horrible panic attacks...I live in fear, and am paranoid anymore that she might mess with my car, or run me over in a parking lot when I leave my second job late at night. Don't know if I will ever be able to have a life (and I'm a very boring person!). My love for my family is so strong...but I can't even enjoy my beautiful children growing up. I'm afraid she'll kill me or have someone kill me. I told my mom, my husband, my friends, "if something happens to me- you know". Her son told my children she had her husband put in prison for physical abuse.I wonder.I wonder if she set him up.She worked as a parallegal and did investigative work she said. She's done this all before. She knows exactly what she's doing. Like she said to the judge, "I did lots of investigative work, and I was GOOD at it".
God, father in heaven, help me.I'm not a fanatic but what else do I have.No one can help me.
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